Life In 79

Having experienced a veritable drought of seeing family and friends over the last few years, this summer turned into the rainy season. It started with our son's wedding. In temperatures of the high 30s, we watched our little boy tie the knot. For some reason he had decided to wear a tweed suit with matching waistcoat for the big day along with his best man. He looked very red and moist but extremely happy.   At a previous wedding Anna, my wife, and I had a contretemps about my refusal to dance. Not wanting a recurrence I danced, how I danced...and then...I danced some more. At one point I was the only one throwing shapes on the dance floor, even the DJ had naffed off.   On the long drive home Anna and I, and our daughter (who was coming to stay) felt a bit rough from our exertions; my throat felt a bit raspy from screaming 'Hi Ho Silver Lining' and other anthems. Turned out we had Covid. Over the next week everyone who attended the wedding came down with the lurgy. It was a...

I don't complain. If someone stands on my foot getting off the bus I apologise; if there's a fly in my soup I will say nothing. I am spineless. Anything to avoid confrontation. Anna, my wife, does the confrontation (she's Scottish). If the lunch we ordered hasn't appeared after 50 minutes...Anna will go and enquire.  But last month the worm turned...twice! We have nearly finished renovating a small house in the beautiful village of Saint Loup with a view to Airbnb. The town's folk were having a ' guinguette'   (we thought this was the name of the group playing), so this was an ideal opportunity to immerse ourselves in village life by drinking far too much at the guinguette, staggering back to our abode to have a good night's sleep.   The first part we managed successfully; music, dancing, drinking and a ' wee pook a chaps' as they say in Scotland. Even the staggering back was achieved, but a good night's sleep...? The little house is next to ...

I had been invited on my sons stag do and Anna, my wife, the hen do. How times have changed. I love my father dearly, but the thought of him sitting next to me in Spearmint Rhino on my pre wedding bash fills me with dread. I said I wouldn't feel bad if I was left out, but Murray, my son, was adamant I partake, as Emma's (Murray's bride-to-be) father was participating.  So it was, we bombed it up to Coquelles, where we stay in a Formula 1 'hotel' before crossing. We hadn't stayed there since Covid and the place had had a make over. You still have to traipse down the corridor for a pee, memorise a five digit pin number to get back into your room post pee, the one pillow I had was the size of a T-bag and breakfast is bread and jam. But it is cheap.   The gals were off to Bath for three days of activities including a life drawing session of a tattooed man and an It's a Knockout sort of games afternoon. The boys were off to Cambridge for one night only. The after...

Winter is but a distant memory, as summer has well and truly arrived. The log burners have fallen silent, several togs removed from the duvet, even my trusty winter gilet is now in its summer hibernation – “sleep, my precious, until we meet again”. Instead, we have whirring fans on the bedside tables, fly screens on the windows and the sticky fly-papers-of-death hang from the ceiling like long Garibaldi biscuits. My hot-water bottle has been replaced by a fly swat, with which, Ninja-like, I splatter the enemy into the coffee table, kitchen counters or any other surface they have landed on.  The paddy field that is our garden in winter has been cooked by the summer sun; the lush verdant grass now golden and when working in the vegetable garden a pickaxe is my preferred tool of choice.   After two years of living like hermits we are looking forward to a packed calendar of social events. Our son is getting married this year so we will be zipping back and forth to the UK for the s...

This was the third time my brother had tried to visit, each time thwarted by new Covid regulations. So a week before his flight, like Harry Potter in the under stairs cupboard, he went into self-imposed isolation.   To many he is a Senior Adult Psychotherapist specialising in Mentalisation Based Therapy (MBT) at the Bethlem Royal Hospital, to me Simon is my twin brother who I have argued, fought, but mainly laughed with for the last 55 years. So it was wonderful to see him in person instead of cutting out, Norman Collier style, on the family zoom. Everything was set for a fantastic weekend: the sun was going to shine, the Deux-S è vres countryside was at its finest, the fridge stocked and it was our birthday on the Sunday. Simon is a bit of an amateur wine aficionado, so we thought Chinon would tick all the boxes: ch â teau, cobbled lanes and old-man river (the Vienne) rollin' along... all surrounded by vineyards.   A packed itinerary had been formulated for the day but we had...

When we moved to France we had romantic notions of wandering around the markets squeezing the melons and sniffing the tomatoes. Anna, my wife, even purchased a wicker basket to carry home the produce. But, in reality we do our weekly shop at Lidl and the basket is used to store our phone and iPad cables.  Every week Anna will stagger back from town with our three bags-for-life full of all the fruit and veg we have to eat before it goes off (so much for squeezing and sniffing). The carrots seem to last 24 hours before giving up on life and the potatoes' black bruises can require continuous peeling until there is nothing left. We like the lack of choice you get in Lidl (not the greatest advertising slogan) and Anna loves the non consumable items at the back. She did the 'big' shop one week and came back with a sewing machine! When it comes to dining out we are equally as unadventurous. We once spent a day in Milan and ate in McDonald's ...twice! We have had Big Macs in so...

For some reason, we had decided to take the ferry back to the UK. Less driving, cabin, meal on board...a bit like a mini cruise? We were taking the van so that Anna, my wife, could buy a few things to bring back (in my mind I was thinking a jar of Marmite and a packet of bacon, how wrong I was). We were also dropping off 43 bottles of French wine to some friends who had recently moved back to the UK, and struggling to adjust to British prices.   We found ourselves killing time in the very up market town of Marlborough (the ferry having dropped us off at 6.30am - we were awoken by three refrains of some soothing lute music piped over the tannoy).   Anna had bought a furry coat from Noz, but the English climate didn't seem to agree with it and the thing had started moulting on her all black outfit. We tried to purchase a de-fluffer from Waitrose, but had to settle for a roll of sellotape, which we wrapped round our fingers then patted her down.   After delivering the wine a...